Bastienne Cross • Toronto Dominatrix

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Hello, Cum Dumpster: Cuckold Objectification

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My version of the traditional cuckold scene is a bit different than what you may envision, so I've decided to describe it in detail for the curious - or should I say bi-curious? The themes of humiliation, degradation and objectification run rampant through most cuckold fantasies, all of which I share and find deeply exciting. As a bit of a cuckquean myself, this is one of those kinks I just totally get from top to bottom (pun intended). I've taken the traditional version of this scene and tailored it to my interests, balancing the power dynamics, objectification and degradation together perfectly, turning it into something delightfully degrading.

Don't get me wrong, I love the traditional cuckold scenes where a woman humiliates her (usually male) partner by fucking another, stronger, more well endowed man in front of him, forcing him to watch, perhaps even making her partner clean up the creampie afterwards. Although I love watching those scenes, the reality of the power dynamic shifts in a FemDom / client version of the same idea. The partner and the client take opposite roles in this situation which totally shakes up the dynamic. Instead of punishing the husband by humiliating him, in most professional cuckold scenes, it's the Domme fucking her alpha boyfriend or husband while the client is 'forced' to watch or participate in some humiliating form.

As a bit of a cuckquean myself, I understand that the humiliation of having your partner consensually 'cheat' on you is almost entirely emotionally masochistic and founded firmly in your feelings for that partner. The themes of possession, jealously and monogamy are always generally present to varying degrees. Contrast this with the professional version of this same scene and those feelings are generally void. As my client you wouldn't feel strong feelings of jealousy or possessiveness over my sexuality because we're not partners and you're not dominant over me in that way. What does overlap between the traditional and professional FemDom versions of this scene are the themes of degradation, humiliation and inadequacy. Now this is where I start to build my version of the cuckold scene.

As you may have already gathered, I like my BDSM scenes layered with power dynamics and rife with reality and these scenes hit all those marks. I can use my partner as a way to humiliate and degrade you because I have a real world anchor. In this situation, there is no role play required, I don't have to pretend that my partner is better than you because, in my opinion, he is. That's why he's my partner, the only person I am interested in having sex with, the only person who experiences that side of me. My amazing partner serves as the perfect bull in these scenes for me because not only is he well endowed, he is also multi orgasmic. As his Domme, I control his orgasms so he is often in chastity, meaning, I can deny him long before my cuckold session with you which both turns me on and means lots of build up for you.

He is my monogamous partner, his cock is the only one that has the privilege of entering me or being pleasured by me directly. There's a lot of things that I will do with you in session but he gets the really fun parts, him and only him, which makes him special, unlike you. I'm not even being mean, I'm just being honest, he has the only dick I am truly and deeply attracted to and as a fairly gay leaning lady, that is truly remarkable for me and the reason why he is my life partner. Basically, if you truly want to submit to me, you must submit to my favourite cock as well - it's only respectful, right?

So we've established the pecking order: Me, him, you. Now let's get into the humiliation and objectification stuff - my favourite! (heads up: humiliation roleplay dirty talk incoming). In the traditional scene, you'd be in there with us slopping all over everything, looking around with your beady little eyes and - ain't no one got time for that. Let's get real, my partner is not attracted to you and you're a boner killer if we're being honest, you are lucky that even I'm willing to indulge you and give you my attention, am I right? That's why you're securely restrained in a separate room, left to listen as we enjoy ourselves without you.

As I walk out of the room, I open my camera to selfie mode, taking a video with you in the background. I smile and say, "bye!" as I continue recording, walking into the bedroom where my partner awaits, dripping with precum for me, ready to finally fuck me after a week of chastity. This first load is going to be big so I set my phone up to capture every last thrust from behind as I bounce up and down on him. It only takes a few pumps before he tries to hold my hips firmly down on his lap so he can fill me with cum. At that moment, I lift myself off, holding the condom firmly around the base of his cock, effectively ruining his orgasm. I laugh as I watch the condom fill with a weeks worth of cum, his cock pulsing, untouched in the air. You can hear his deep moans of disappointment from the other room and I smile to myself as he finishes. I slowly remove the condom, careful to save every drop for you, my human cum dumpster. I kiss my partner as I leave, his eyes dopey from his partial, painful release and I tell him to start playing with himself again.

As I walk back into the main room, your eyes follow me and I nod towards your full erection as I giggle and sit next to you. I cradle your head in my arm with your face next to my cleavage as I begin playing back the video I just took. I watch your dick swell and bounce as you watch what so few people get to see, this is your chance and your mind tries to memorize everything it is witnessing. The close up of my wet pussy being stretched by his big cock is almost as exhilarating as when you watch him fill that condom up with a huge load of cum. You instinctively open your mouth and I smile as I empty its contents down your throat. I ask how it tastes as I place my magic wand on your frenulum, teasing you for a few minutes while my partner plays with himself in the other room, hard again already. "Are you ready for more?" I ask as your eyes stare hazily into mine. With your nod I'm off to collect another load for my new human cum dumpster.

When I return a few minutes later, I don't say a word and with closed lips, I smile and start playing the next video for you. You immediately understand why I haven't said anything as you watch me suck my partners hard cock to completion. You look at my lips, understanding what is about to happen and I wink at you, using my tongue to play with the cum in my mouth as we watch the rest of the video together. Towards the end of the clip, just as he cums in my mouth, I position myself above you and you open yours, receiving your second load.

Rinse and repeat my dear dumpster - you get the gist.

So that's the cuckold objectification scene I offer in all it's perverse glory! It's such a multi layered, milk-tastic, devious time, I'm sure you can understand why I have a few regular clients who just request this over and over. I love this scene because there's quite a bit of wiggle room too, you don't have to experience it exactly as I've described above, you can incorporate this into so many types of scenes and tailor it to suite your experience and comfort levels. I love pairing it with chastity and orgasm torture, for example, where I either 'force' the sub to cum as many times as my partner or completely deny them the whole time. It can also be combined with 'forced' self cum eating too, in case you're really hungry for cum. So many possibilities and so much yummy cum for a subby little dumpster like you! ;)


PS. Here’s what one of my favourite, little cummy dumpsters had to say about his very special role in my sex life:

“The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines luck as ‘the events or circumstances that operate for or against an individual.’ While I’m grateful for the unearned privileges I enjoy in life, I can’t help but obsess over what has led me to become the pathetic, slutty, and submissive cuck I am today.

Despite a plethora of interactions and life events, my cerebrum fires off vivid imagery of a man I’ve only known as [Slave] Honnu. I’ve never met Honnu, but his aura transcends any masculine energy I’ve ever experienced. Visiting Bastienne’s has been one of my favourite pastimes in the past few years. When I arrive at the entrance to her brightly-coloured paradise, my mind always runs rampant with anxiety and natural curiosity. Deep in my soul, I can feel Bastienne’s dominant energy and Honnu’s big dick energy radiating through the air. 

When I arrive at her doorstep, she offers her full and undivided attention, but in reality, we all know where I stand in this hierarchy. As I kneel and submit to Bastienne Cross’ every need, I know in the back of my mind that there is a well-endowed cock with balls of steel waiting for her just a few steps away.

Despite every submissive act I can think of, I know that Honnu is the only human that can really please Bastienne wholeheartedly. Acknowledging my useless microscopic penis and pathetic existence, I’ve come to the realization that I will never please Bastienne sexually. Accepting that I am nothing like Honnu will allow me to realize my true life purpose as Bastienne Cross’ non-intimate cuckold.

As Lindy Zart once said, “Sometimes in life, you do things you don’t want to. Sometimes you sacrifice, sometimes you compromise. Sometimes you let go and sometimes you fight. It’s all about deciding what’s worth losing and what’s worth keeping.”

My relationship with Bastienne Cross, however small and humiliating it may be, is certainly worth keeping. So the next time the luckiest man alive gets to sleep with Bastienne, I must eagerly beg, borrow, and plead to be her private cum dumpster. Consuming Honnu’s cum or using it as lube as I get pounded might be my only chance at being apart of Bastienne’s magical sex life.”

- Little Linda