FemDom is Fun!
My style is creative, playful and endlessly perverse - kink is my passion and FemDom is my specialty. This is my fresh, accessible approach to BDSM.
My Style.
Juvenile and giddy, my domination style is delightfully... weird. It’s taken me a few years to confidently bridge the gap between silliness and sadism, but here I am! I specialize in things that adolescent Bastienne would have been pumped about! Wedgies, butt stuff, kicking boys in the balls, tickling, pee-pee, and farts... I am a professional silly goose.
For me, natural joy and giggles provide the perfect counter balance to the dark themes and shame that often accompany BDSM play. My scenes are tactile, imaginative and fun. Here I’ve found the perfect balance, welcome to my happy place!
What Subbies Are Saying
"I have been seeing Bastienne regularly for the last three years. I can honestly say I knew my search for a Mistress had finally ended after our first session together. She is not only beautiful, Bastienne possesses a truly sadistic nature that I'd been seeking for years. I've since been opened up to more intense forms of submission, ones I had never dreamed of exploring previously. She genuinely enjoys what she does and as her submissive, I can attest, you feel it in every moment shared with her. You must experience Bastienne in person for yourself, I couldn't recommend her more!"
— A K
“Bastienne, I can't thank you enough for the experience you gave me yesterday. I haven't been able to stop thinking about you since then, standing over top of me, smiling and laughing with such joy. You are truly one of a kind. All I can think of is seeing you again. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU. "
— Jason H.
“My session with Bastienne was my first time doing BDSM, and I was very nervous. Fortunately, it was a wonderful experience! Even as she did cruel things to me, I felt as if she was concerned with whether I was having a good time, and was careful not to push me too far. Bastienne seems like a kind and caring person, and she made me feel valuable even while doing cruel things to me. Note: Although Bastienne's website is somewhat ballbusting-focused, she does accept female clients. I was her first, and I'm sure she would love to have more!”
— Aria
Quick Stats
10 years of experience as a full-time, professional, fetish & BDSM provider.
Tall, curvy & 100% natural.
Identifies as sexually sadistic & pansexual.
Consistently in the top 5% for all porn producers on Clips4Sale.com since 2019.
Tactile & non verbal play facilitates my Top Space most efficiently.
…More Stats
Experienced lifestyle & professional Domme.
Follows SSC & RACK.
Plays with people of all genders.
Domination idols: GlaDOS and Paul Heyman.
Loves a nice, low light house plant or this blueberry & maple whiskey liqueur!
Libra & INFJ.
Currently listening to Caravan Palace.
Has a big ol’ booty & lil cute feet.
Hard limits.
I respect the physical and psychological limits of play partners and expect the same in return. A comprehensive list of my hard limits can be found here.
Safe, sane, consensual & risk aware.
Safety and trust are the foundation of any healthy dynamic, this is particularly true when exploring within BDSM. I always put safety first and I always play with a safe word, strictly honouring it’s use. For more information, here’s a great article about the topic from submissiveguide.com.
FAQ
Sessions are intimidating, especially with a new provider. I’ve created this Cheat Sheet for Beginners to help answer some common questions and assuage some of those nerves. You can also check out my list of frequently asked questions below.
Media
Huffington Post
I was interviewed by the Huffington Post in March of 2020 about the safety protocols that I use in my professional practice. This article talks about the vast knowledge base of the sex industry in general and about safety protocols practiced by BDSM providers specifically.
FemDom-Resource.com
FemDom-Resource.com is a beautifully curated content aggregator and, as of mid 2020, my blog has been officially adopted into their feed! In addition to having my blog featured, the site’s owner has also written a few posts about my work as well.
FemDom Destiny
FemDom Destiny is a content aggregation site consistently updated with high quality, new posts. The lovely folks over there have featured me in their Mistress Profile section where I talk a bit about my domination style and specialties.
Featured on The Tea Time Podcast
In April of 2022, I wrote an email to one of my favourite podcasts. Not only did they read it - they featured my work for the first 30 minutes of their Patreon podcast and titled the episode “Busting Balls!” It is hilarious and definitely worth the $7 to access this episode and the rest of their archive as well.
CONSIDERED University CURRICULUM
Certain posts from my BDSM blog were in contention to be included in the course curriculum at the University of Victoria in 2023. The human sexuality course ended up going in a different direction but being considered was an honour in itself. The blog post that gained the most attention is called “Sexual Objectification and Dehumanization Kinks”.
The Erotic Art of Ballbusting
Sex educator and author, Lara Sterling, interviewed me in May of 2019 about my experience as a professional ballbuster. I talk about the deep psychological intimacy that I experience with ballbusting subs and try to provide a deeper understanding about this often misunderstood kink.
Forced-Bi.com
I was interviewed by the kink focused website in February of 2020. The in-depth interview covers many of the intricacies of this common kink. I share some of my experiences and details about how I’ve interpreted this fetish. Although I no longer offer forced-bi services, this is a good read and a nice peak into how my kinky brain works.
