hard limits

Below you will find all the things that I do not offer. It is very important to understand, accept and memorize my hard limits. This is the foundation of consensual, safe BDSM. Just because you’ve read a blog post of mine, watched a clip or chatted with me about something on OnlyFans or SextPanther does not mean that I offer that in person, to the general public. If you are here reading this, that means that you are likely a perfect stranger to me. You, like everyone else, start at zero. You are not entitled to anything from me in the same way that I am not entitled to anything from you.

Just because you’ve seen something in a clip, doesn’t mean I will do it with you. Just because you’ve assumed that I offer certain things in sessions, doesn’t mean that I do. There is a hard line between fantasy and reality. Go forward attentively and read carefully as I explicitly state the things that I do not offer. If you mention any of the following things while applying for an in person session with me, I will block you.

A black sign with white text outlining various rules and restrictions, including no brats, no power bottoms, no financial subs, no behavior or style requests, no same day or urgent requests, no escort services, no intimate worship, no handjobs, no footjobs, no sensual domination, no financial domination, no leather or latex play, no wardrobe requests, no tease and denial, no full toilet, no free chatting, no cuddling, and almost no fetishists.

Fulfilling fantasies is a serendipitous side effect of what I offer. I do not identify as a performer or model, I think of myself as a person who provides a safe place to learn about sexual submission. I’m low-key the Control Freak Whisperer. I don’t offer customized fantasies, I offer the opportunity to learn how to relinquish control, to sit as a guest in my world and to receive lighthearted, kinky guidance from an experienced practictioner of BDSM. You can read more about what I do offer here.

What I Offer