A Very Special Mommy Blog

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Mommy blogs usually bring to mind a certain type of woman. Conventional, family friendly, clean, polished, traditional and, perhaps, a bit contrived. The premise is that this blogger is an exceptional mommy who takes her role seriously and she feels compelled to share her tips, tricks, experiences and perspective with her loyal, mommy followers.

Sounds great, count me the fuck in.

The following is a work of fiction that involves Mommy / little roleplay. It’s a popular form of power exchange exclusively done with people above the age of consent.

Bastienne’s Mommy Blog: Tips to Keep Constant Control

Unlike most mommys, I don’t believe my step son should be blindly trusted. Littles of a certain age need a lot of guidance. I think providing boundless respect, trust and privacy to someone who doesn’t deserve it is a recipe for disaster. The proof is in the pudding and ever since I’ve taken a leadership role in my step son’s life, he’s become a much more calm, open minded and enjoyable young man. We’ve been getting endless compliments about the positive change and I’m sure you’re wondering what I’ve done to help his progress so much so let’s get into it!

Well, first of all, I’m not afraid of unconventional approaches. I’m all about results and I see that as my job. My focus is not gaining his approval or making his life as easy as I possibly can, it’s to elicit results. The desired result in this situation is a sort of stasis, a holding pattern for him to be kept safe within during the few years when he’s most prone to bad decisions.

Basically hormones are a hell of a drug so the leash must be shortened figuratively, and literally, in some circumstances. The mistake that I see so many mommys make is that they give too much control, thinking they’re being nice. Littles actually flourish with almost no control, that way when you offer them any type of leniency, they’ll be grateful for it. They learn to comply and through that they get the privilege of living in complete safety, something very few people enjoy.

Speaking of safety, let’s get back to those unconventional methods. For boys, their dick is truly their worst enemy. I introduced chastity to my step son right away and, obviously, I hold the keys. Now, there’s definitely a balance to strike here that will take some adjustment as time goes on but a scheduled release time for him every day before breakfast and again after dinner. I would also offer bonus release time on weekends as a sort of allowance related to chores.

Luckily my partner trusts me completely and absolutely loves my methods so I was left fully in charge of this. I determined that it’d be best to start moulding and shaping my step son’s desires in an effort to create a good man, the kind of man I’d want to date if I were his age. I decided that it’d be best if I hand picked the materials for him to watch so I loaded them up on a tablet that he only had access to during these release times. I could also watch and assess which videos he was watching and for how long.

The timing took some trial and error. I started with 5 minutes but that turned out to be too little. I wanted to keep tight control on him so I always knock on the door and put my ear to it before asking, “all done?” When we were experimenting with the 5 minute release time, he would either yell “no!” or a few times he didn’t answer at all. Of course, it’s my job to enforce boundaries so I opened the door after announcing “I’m coming in!”

This resulted in me witnessing a few things I shouldn’t have, including him ejaculating on himself, but each time I just took a deep breath walked right over, hauled him up by his arm and told him to clean himself up and pull his pants up. Sometimes I would be able to put his chastity cage on, sometimes we would have to wait and sometimes it just wouldn’t work at all. He would get an erection each time I would start touching him and that’s when I got the ball crusher. Adaptability is key in these situations!

The crusher is great because it hurts just enough to stop the erection and it enables me to get his cage back on. It also serves as a punitive tool, a deterrent for certain misbehaviour. For example, at one point he would pretend he was done releasing in a bid to have me watch him ejaculate as I opened the door. He did this 4 - 5 times in a row before I threatened to use the ball crusher and that behaviour ceased entirely.

I also wanted to quell the bratty behaviour I was witnessing so I started providing exclusively female dominant, male submissive materials for him to watch during release time. I wanted to make a strong, positive association with submission and release and soon enough, I would look at his viewing stats and the more female dominant videos became his favourites. At this time, he also became much sweeter and easier to be around during the day.

To reward the good behaviour, I introduced earned bonus releases per minute that could be stored and used up on the weekends. Things like folding my laundry, cleaning, even simple things like giving foot rubs were rewarded with extra release time. He was eager to earn this time and even managed to earn himself about 40 minutes one weekend and decided to use it all in one sitting and I decided to grant him his wish since he been making such great progress.

He asked if he could stay up late with the tablet with the pornographic materials on it and I reluctantly agreed to stay up a bit later than I usually would to make sure he didn’t go over time and to cage him back up afterwards. We were chatting in the kitchen before he was heading in and I was joking about him needing to get hydrated for what he was about to do (another bonus of being very close with your step son, we have a very open communication style). He opened up and admitted that he liked my rules and he knew they were good for him but he felt bad because his friends from school were getting girlfriends and he wasn’t allowed.

He confessed that he fantasized about actually doing the things he was seeing in the videos I provided but he knew there was no safe way to do any of them. I was sympathetic and, after a few glasses of wine, a little more openminded than I usually would be. He wanted to ask me a question but made me promise I wouldn’t get mad. He caught me at just the perfect time and I agreed.

“Would you show me… ?” and I instantly knew what he meant. I told him to go to his room and I stood in the kitchen for a few minutes. After seriously thinking about it and finishing my glass of wine, I knocked on his door. He was slumped in his bed, under his blankets, still and utterly listless. As I walked over to the side, I slowly pulled my shirt up and lifted each breast out of the top of my bra. The firm part of the bra bunching under my tits, pushing my C cups up and out. I sat on the side of the bed like I usually would when releasing him from his cage and I took the blanket off of him.

As he rolled over, he looked utterly shocked and just stared at my breasts. As I released him from his cage, his penis was bursting through the sides, blood flowing into a full erection. I didn’t say another word, I just handed him the tablet, smiled and said, “Have fun, I’ll knock in 40 minutes.”

After that, I continued using the ball crusher as punishment and a few new things as rewards. Over time we ended up switching from negative to positive reinforcement. The new rewards included, me watching his release. So those would count as 3 minutes each, meaning if he had earned 20 extra minutes for the weekend, he could have a private release session of 11 minutes and request that I watch him for the last 3 minutes. Another reward was taking pictures of me. This could include anything he wanted to be added onto the tablet and would usually manifest in me releasing him from his cage, then he would request which body part he wanted a pic of, he’d take the pic then his release session would resume as usual.

Rewards usually entailed doing big tasks like mowing the lawn, shovelling the driveway, cooking and cleaning for family dinners and things of that nature. Like I said, this system is unconventional but it works like a charm! Everyone is so impressed with what a polite, well behaved gentleman my step son has turned into and I couldn’t be more proud!

Bastienne Cross

Experienced, professional Dominatrix and lifestyle kinkster, Bastienne Cross is a FemDom content creator in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Mentioned in the Huffington Post and a featured author on the ‘best blog reel’ on FemDom-Resource.com, Bastienne values quality and a sense of humour in all aspects of her practice, inside and outside of the dungeon.

https://bastienne.substack.com
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