Started in the fall of 2020, I desperately wanted to hear a Pro Domme speak transparently about the reality of being a Dominatrix as a full time job. I could connect with other Dommes privately but I couldn’t find anything online that quite satisfied what I was looking for.
It felt like most FemDom podcasts were primarily promotional and somewhat curated or holding back in a way. Although I totally respect that, I found myself craving something else. I couldn’t find it so… I created it.
The Trust and Thrust podcast now has 120+ episodes in the archive and chronicles the good, the bad and the ugly parts of sex work and professional domination over the last 6 years.
The professional FemDom industry is marginalized, misunderstood, highly curated and deeply, truly fascinating. I think you can learn a lot about the larger society by peeking into the fantasies of its members and that’s exactly what I’ve been doing for the last decade working as a Dominatrix here in Toronto.
The Trust + Thrust Podcast
FEMDOM FOR PEOPLE WHO DON’T FIT INTO FEMDOM
I believe I bring an openness, a vulnerability, a sense of humour and a level of irreverence to my episodes that I think some people will find refreshing. I talk about the reality of this job, not just what makes me look or feel good or what will make me money. I like the feeling of taking a risk and saying the quiet part out loud, especially when it can make others feel validated.
There’s a lot we don’t talk about in FemDom because it’s not glamourous, it’s not kinky, sexy or profitable but I like that about BDSM, I like that it is inherently… human. Creating this podcast has helped embolden me to, not just promote myself and my brand, but to open up and represent this career as honestly as I can to others who may be considering becoming a Dominatrix themselves.
I’m not an expert or a teacher, I’m an enthusiastic student of Female Domination in all of it’s manifestations. From reductive, banal and hypocritical to revelatory, deeply connective and surprisingly wholesome, I love it all.
The Trust + Thrust Podcast is a great listen for introspective submissives as well as curious lifestyle and Pro Dommes who want a genuine peek behind the curtain.
Check out what’s in the archive below and hopefully I’ll see you on Patreon!
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OCTOBER 2020
The Economics of Kink
NOVEMBER 2020
Your First FemDom Session in 14 Steps
Ballbusting Swoon
CRUSH
DECEMBER 2020
Panty Fetish: The Power of the Puss
EROTICA: Christmas with Mommy Bastienne
My First Photoshoot!
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JANUARY 2021
2020: Year in Revi(eewww)
EROTICA: Face Humping Heaven, Smothering Time!
The Trampling Renaissance
What is Lifestyle FemDom? and why it (almost) doesn't fuckin' matter ;)
FEBRUARY 2021
It's Me, Peggy Fundy! (How-To Get Pegged)
EROTICA: The Worst Nurse, Medical Roleplay!
Happy Valentine's Gay!
RANT: FemDom for People Who Hate FemDom
What I Expect From You in a Session
MARCH 2021
EROTICA: Training My Sissy Secretary
I'm Back From Kinky Vacay!
Cock & Ball Bondage: The Musical!
Cocks with ADHD
Every Day is Taco Tuesday 🌮
APRIL 2021
EROTICA: My Little Cucky
I Caught a Foot Fetish!
Damazonia's Visit!
Let's Talk About Money, Honey 💸
MAY 2021
Etobicoke Play Space: REVAMPED!
Happy Mommy's Day!
Attack of the Copy Kittens!
EROTICA: Trickle Training
JUNE 2021
The Truth About "Real" Dommes & subs!
Red High Tops
Triangulation Station
Weapon of Ass Destruction
EROTICA: Happy Clamada Day!
JULY 2021
Escape from the Man Haters Club
Practice Makes Pervert
Adventures in Verbal Humiliation
EROTICA: Mother F*ck3r
AUGUST 2021
The Apple Sauce Lady
Wet & Messy!
Kinky Starfish & Other Session Fails
EROTICA: The Tough Love Teacher
Welcome to the Jungle (gym)!
SEPTEMBER 2021
Please & Spank You! 🍁
Kink vs BDSM
Body Scrimmage
One Year Anniversary on Substack!
OCTOBER 2021
Introducing: THE WIGGLE ROOM!
EROTICA: Mommy Versus Mommy
Behind the Curtain
Kinky Remedies for the Winter Blues ☃️🏏
NOVEMBER 2021
The Gayest Fetishes of All
Technicali-titties!
Peggy Fundy Themed Duos with Aspasia for the Holidays!
Are We The New Japan?
Fuck Christmas - AGAIN! 🎅🏽🍆
DECEMBER 2021
$20 off on Ball Crushers Til NYE!
EROTICA: My Human Fleshlight
BDSM Love Story
I put the FUN in erectile dysFUNction
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JANUARY 2022
2021 Wrap Up
Calgary Sessions & An Audio AMA
Playing with Couples
A Funhouse Called CONTROL
FEBRUARY 2022
Let's Talk About Fart Fetish!
The Shame of Being a Domme
Happy Valentine's Day ;)
How to Increase Your Pain Tolerance
MARCH 2022
EROTICA: Mommy Gives You a Spanking Fetish
The Wiggle Room Dance
How I Plan a Session
Next Level Submission
Ruined O's, Feet and Unsolicited Feedback
APRIL 2022
DIRTY TALK: Horny Hodge Podge
Traditional Values (BDSM Style)
Interview with Aspasia The Great!
I Keep The Wolf From The Door
MAY 2022
Filming Clips
The Tea Time Podcast & Lady Valeska Visits!
Boundaries & Boyfriend Mode
JUNE 2022
EROTICA: Gold Digging Step-Mom
Sissies & Shout Outs
Gags & Gatekeeping
VIDEO FULL INTERVIEW: Lady Valeska, London Dominatrix!
Diapers & Deep Talk
JULY 2022
Smothering & Service Topping
Golden Showers & Getting Older
Handcuffs & Holding Space
Violet Wands & Volition
AUGUST 2022
Ravishment & Roleplay
SPH & Armchair Sociology
Exhibitionism & Elevation
Facesitting & Sexual Snowflakes
SEPTEMBER 2022
Bondage Stocks & Simplicity
Ballbusting & Burn Out
MY 100TH EPISODE! 🥳
Final Bosses & Fat Fetishism
OCTOBER 2022
Trampling & Time Theft
Bum Sniffing & Blame
Suplexes & Sadism
Sissification & Stand Up
NOVEMBER 2022
Spanking & Speaking Up
Saint Andrews & Crossed Wires
Collars & Culty Vibes
Cuckqueans & Chemistry
Feminism & Free Use
DECEMBER 2022
FUCK CHRISTMAS, Subspace & People Pleasing
Pain Storming with Aspasia The Great!
I STARTED AN ONLYFANS!
Popping Third Wheelies & Balloons
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JANUARY 2023
Boundary Basics, Mean Mommy & Bad Impressions
ADHD & The Smothering Rebreather
Sheep in Wolf's / Sounding
Texts, Nipples and (un)Fair Femdom
FEBRUARY 2023
Dehumanization & Deprivation
ASPASIA & BASTIENNE! Your Dominatrix Buds
Valentine's GAY!
HIATUS
MARCH 2023
N/A
APRIL 2023
MY NEW BOOKING PROCESS!
DECEPTION: A good person doing dirty things
MAY 2023
The Perfect Submissive
JUNE 2023
N/A
JULY 2023
The Brown BDSM&Ms
AUGUST 2023
Boobs & Death
OCTOBER 2023
N/A
NOVEMBER 2023
Greed, Freedom and Function
DECEMBER 2023
My D/s Failures of 2023
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JANUARY 2024
N/A
FEBRUARY 2024
N/A
MARCH 2024
Asexuality & The Alienation Olympics
APRIL 2024
Hot Gossip: The Toronto BDSM Scene
MAY 2024
N/A
JUNE 2024
N/A
JULY 2024
I Gave Up The Wiggle Room 😱/🥳
AUGUST 2024
Stupid Ass Stigma
SEPTEMBER 2024
N/A
OCTOBER 2024
A (Horny) Walk Down (Kinky) Memory Lane
Mercury's in Haterade
NOVEMBER 2024
Questions For Siren Thorn!
Interview with SIREN THORN! 💜
DECEMBER 2024
Kink Mystery SOLVED! + Niagara Getaways for Xmas 🎁
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JANUARY 2025
Feminism Vs. FemDom: A SUPER SEXY PILLOW FIGHT!
FEBRUARY 2025
The Harrison Ford of ProDomme 🤞
MARCH 2025
They're Afraid of Their Own Cocks
APRIL 2025
Tub Cast 💦
MAY 2025
The Irony of Quitting Kinks
JUNE 2025
🏳️🌈😘 BDSM Karma is a GAY BITCH 😘🏳️🌈
JULY 2025
Malarkey, Farts + Evil Podiatrists
AUGUST 2025
N/A
SEPTEMBER 2025
The Cult of Niagara Falls (for one)
OCTOBER 2025
Autumnal Anxiety Rituals
NOVEMBER 2025
🐳 Gaining Weight on The Internet 🐳
DECEMBER 2025
N/A
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JANUARY 2026
Live, Laugh, CURATE
FEBRUARY 2026
Pick Me
MARCH 2026
N/A
APRIL 2026
The Titty Troll of Gander
MAY 2026
THIS PODCAST HAS MOVED TO PATREON
JUNE 2026
N/A
JULY 2026
N/A
AUGUST 2026
Kinky Limerence