The 5th Anniversary of My BDSM Blog!
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Welcome! Today I’m celebrating the 5th anniversary of my BDSM blog! I launched this blog on August 9th of 2017 with the usual “Coming Soon!” kind of post you see on a lot of sites. My first post was titled “From Vanilla to Here” and it marks the beginning of something very special to me.
I’ll admit, at first, my blog felt like a chore. It was just another task on the agenda, something to get over with. It wasn’t until mid 2018 that I started to look forward to writing. As I collected experiences, I would be excited to sit down and put it into words for my handful of readers. By 2020, I had over 10,000 words in partial posts sitting in folders on my desktop.
I realized that my blog served as a bit of catharsis for me. In my posts I could show off my knowledge and love of my work. I could showcase my sessions and reveal my imagination to readers. Most importantly though, I could humanize myself. Beyond a gallery of flattering pictures, I have quite the kinky, little noggin too! This blog in combination with my weekly podcast on substack serve as two of my favourite outlets.
So in celebration of 5 years and 50 posts, I’m going to list the most popular posts of all time in order of most viewed. Then I’m going to list my favourite posts, the ones that I’m most proud of and tell you a bit about their creation and why I love them!
My Most Popular Blog Posts
“Hello, Cum Dumpster” - Cuckold objectification scenes are among my most popular and this post spares no detail about this very hot fantasy!
“Your First FemDom Session” - Curious newbies love this post because I give you all the details you need in order to prepare for your first session.
“The Bucket List: Wet & Messy” - After a euphoric first time, I write all about my new found love for the very absurd and very fun WAM kink!
“Golden Showers” - The best things in life are… PEE! I guess my readers share my love of water sports!
“Making of the Infamous Iso-Toilet” - This is the surprisingly wholesome tale about a decidedly not wholesome piece of equipment that I custom made for a subby.
Bastienne’s Picks - Top 5
“From Feared to Sincere” - This post means a lot to me. During the lockdowns of 2020, I went through a metamorphosis and this blog post contains all the revelations I had at that time. It also marks a massive shift from fantasy to authenticity in my role as a Domme.
“Mommy Buys Her Son a Fleshlight” - I just think this one is really hot!
“Interception: Kindness & Kink” - This one sat on my laptop for almost a year before I gathered enough confidence to actually post it. It’s a bit more vulnerable than most of my posts but that’s why I love it.
“Making of the Infamous Iso-Toilet” - I think this is one of my more well written posts about one of my crowning glory achievements of my career. I solved a 20 year old kink code.
“Let’s Talk About Money Honey” - Talking about the interwoven worlds of FinDom and FemDom felt very taboo at the time. It took some boldness to post and that’s why I’m proud of it.
Whether this is your first time perusing my blog or you’ve been here all along - Thank you for reading! I’ll continue to write a new post every month so check back often. Here’s to 5 more years of BDSM blogging!
xo Bastienne :)
