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"You Can Be Meaner"

The dreaded phrase - “you can be meaner” and why you should never say it again.

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Air BnB(DSM)

Great for open minded guests looking for a ...unique experience. Expect the unexpected in my space.

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The Wedgie Board

Here’s my favourite wedgie roleplay scenes from my audio-only podcast called The Wedgie Board on Patreon!

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Stolen Kinky Valor

Proclaimations in BDSM are subjective and easily feigned. Let’s talk about kinky valor and the many ways that it is stolen.

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My Expectations 2.0

Expectations are very important in BDSM. Here’s my updated cheat sheet for newbies.

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Adopt, Don’t Shop

What I’ve learned through D/s has extended to helping traumatized animals.

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