The Control Freak Whisperer
Learn more about my methods, approach to BDSM and what I really offer in session.
The Trust & Thrust Podcast
I recently took a break from my FemDom podcast “The Trust & Thrust Podcast”. Let me tell you about the best episodes from the archive of over 100 posts.
Sexual Objectification & Dehumanization Kinks
Sexual objectification and dehumanization are common mechanisms of power exchange that are often misunderstood.
BDSM for Women
Playful and GAY-ful BDSM for the women of Toronto! Let’s talk about lesbian domination, cuckqueans, exciting dom duo options and lots more!
The CBT Nurse
My bedside manner includes: Bondage, urethral sounding, ball crushing, orgasm torture and some indecent exposure. I am the CBT Nurse!
The Freedom of Roleplay
Let’s talk about BDSM roleplay! The mental health benefits, basic theory, how to get started and an introduction to the roleplay characters that I offer!
The 5th Anniversary of My BDSM Blog!
The top 5 most read blog posts and my personal top picks!
Interception: Kindness & Kink
Thoughts of violation and the importance of kindness in BDSM.
Orgasm Management
Edging, chastity, denial, torture and, of course, ruined orgasms. Orgasm management is surprisingly fundamental to most BDSM play.
Let's Talk About Money, Honey!
Can we balance our sexual and financial identities within professional BDSM?
The Spanking Ritual with Mommy
MILF-y Mommy Bastienne is about to give you a proper spanking… and possibly, a new kink!
The Psychology of Ballbusting
Ballbusting is a very popular kink but few people truly understand the psychology behind the attraction.
Playing With Couples
I love teaching women how to dominate their partners. Open communication, a sense of humour and the willingness to have fun are all you need!
5 Reasons to Date Submissive Men
Submissive men are diamonds hidden in plain sight. Here’s why I think every woman should date submissive men.
The Bucket List: Wet and Messy
I checked a kinky item off my bucket list and had an absolute, euphoric blast with a lovely new subby!